Dating a bigger woman

Some disguised it as 'preferring girls to be fit' or 'wanting them to be in proportion' but we all knows what that means - find me skinny.Ironic given that, if you ask most men to pick out a girl who's a size 14 they'd probably point at a dress size 22 - brainwashed by the media to think that anything over a size 10 is plus size and quite in the dark about what real sizes look like on real women.Some women are extremely picky and will not accept a fat guy, but the vast majority of women are much more flexible about what they find attractive in a guy than most men realize. If you’re a fat guy and you’re looking to get laid, get a girlfriend or find yourself a wife, what you need to do is improve your ability to attract women when you interact with them.For example: When you’re interacting with a woman, your style of conversation, your vibe and your behavior is either going to be turning her on or not.If a fat man is able to make a woman feel attracted to him in other ways (e.g.he is confident, charismatic, charming, has a masculine vibe, makes her laugh, etc), then some women will stop caring that he doesn’t have a perfectly fit and toned body. When a woman feels attracted to a guy for other reasons, she then starts to look at his physical appearance in a more positive light.Not only does this make them sexy but it makes my heart weep for every guy (lonely, I'll add - you don't join a dating agency if you're not looking for someone to fill an emotional gap) who'd joined up, entrusted (and paying) somebody else to find them love to then turned a person down, before they'd even met them, based on their weight. Our society is also all about extremes - people are either fat or thin and people - men, in this case, struggle to imagine anything in-between - there is no normal or middle ground when you are being read out the stats of another person only labels that define you as a type of person.This applies to men as much as women, take the recent internet craze of dad-bods, people celebrating men who were neither super fit or super fat - they were normal and yet you'd have thought no one had seen an average torso before.

The reason why they can attract a hot woman is that women CAN be attracted in other ways.

When signing up, I'd meet them for a coffee, get a better understanding of their personalities in order to consider who they'd be best matched with. The usual lists cropped up time and time again, height and income high on the list of requirements for women - for men, age and, you guessed it, weight.

Sad to say that, the vast majority of men who I spoke to who were single and ready to date, refused to date 'fat girls'.

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If you are fat like me, or used to be like some other lucky ex-members of our club who probably bribed the weighing scale to flash skinny, you know the forever-itch to lose weight. Shedding those extra pounds so we don’t have to hide in the shadows, be whisked to dorm rooms and apartments under the cover of night, and then, sent right back in the wee hours of the morning lest some frat bro or roommate belittle the conquest of our douchebag date, used to be our ONLY wish in life. No, I am not ranting – coz I myself find the bitter ‘’ kind of token consolatory refrains mean and derogatory! But there is an undeniable stigma attached to dating a fat girl – like we can be ‘oodles’ of fun to pick for a night but never worthy of being on your arm on date nights or introduced to your friends, much less grace wedding pictures! Or even if you do, you have the know-how for dating one.